During those severe incidents, I chose to get help, to phone my doctor or walk toward the security guards on the grounds of a hospital when I felt as if I were going to pass out. I didn’t let myself drift away. I never intended to die. There’s a difference between insane self-harm and pining for that total, annihilating blackness, isn’t there?
But why did I save myself? I’m not sure. It seems a kernel of hope lingered after every incident, some hope remained. Was that spark divine? Did God save me? Did she reach down and deliver me for some reason, some infinite purpose, or is that just my ego expanding the sad melodrama into a Hollywood epic? I mean, who would play me in the movie?
By the time I arrived at PFTL, I’d already had too much neo-Freudian therapy, shock treatments, and meds. Eventually, I morphed into what I call a professional mental patient, a not- incredibly-rare breed. A careerist. When I was in the role of chronic guy, it was sad and bloody and depressing, and sometimes psychotic, but there was comfort in it. I knew what was expected of me, and I became quite skilled at it.
My early years were good and relatively carefree, save for a physically abusive older brother, but who doesn’t have one of those, right? As an eleven-year-old, I also watched my dog get cut in half by an Amtrak train—I remember being shocked, fascinated, and a little obsessed by the lack of blood on Jiggs. Truly, though, the years were good ones, playing little league sports and even being labeled the “friendliest” of my 1984 class in the high school yearbook. I left for Skidmore feeling excited and anxious about school. Unfortunately, at college, I snuffed my intellectual curiosity with disaffection, marijuana, cocaine, and a little LSD. Hemingway and Updike and Roth rescued me at the end, but by the time I graduated in 1988 with an English degree, I was clinically depressed and predictably cynical. I worked at a paper outside Boston for nine months after graduation, writing about holiday decorations, aldermanic play-by-play, gargantuan potholes, and vandalized rose bushes. Just before the paper went bankrupt in 1989, I wrote obituaries, an ironic portent of things to come.